Respect and Love Yourself

People tend to “lose themselves” when they’re in a relationship. Do not give up your individuality and dignity after you have gone into a relationship. You do not need to give up who you are to earn their love.  This is the KEY secret to maintain a loving and long-lasting relationship. If you love and respect yourself, he/she will love and respect you too!

5 Ways To Turn Off Men

Want to know instant men-repellents?

1. You pretend that you don’t want anything serious, yet you still sleep with him in hopes that the relationship would grow into something more.

2. Trying to be his “best friend” by staying close to him. You listen to his problems and helps him deal with them. You hope that he’ll see what a great person you are and want to commit.

3. You try to make him jealous by seeing other men and letting him know about it so that he’ll want you.

4. You get mad at him for not wanting to commit, so you tell him that he’s dumb and immature. And then you try to get him in a relationship with you so he can “fix” himself.

5. You try to make him interested in you by complimenting him, doing things for him and taking up his interests just to be around him.

Source: Christian Carter

12 Ways To Show Your Partner You Care

There are many ways to show your partner you care. Several ideas out there, but what are the most significant ways that would really touch them? Cucan Pemo wrote Bring Back The Love of Your Life and has saved marriages all over the world. Her article explains how to show your man or woman that you care.

Ask if there’s anything that you can do
Many women have mental lists of things that need to be done every day, but will only let you know about them when the list becomes too long. Instead of waiting for the argument that follows, why not ask if there’s anything you can do? It saves both of you time and makes a woman feel appreciated for the things that she has done in the past.

Get to know their friends
A woman’s friends are a representation of the way that she is when you’re not around. If you want to understand her, try to get to know her friends. Your wife or girlfriend will appreciate the way that you show that you care about other important people in her life.

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Why Men Withdraw And What To Do About It

Christian Carter, the author of Catch Him And Keep Him, explains the biggest mistakes women make that could cause men to withdraw. You can learn how to avoid these mistakes in 3 easy steps.

You make THE BIGGEST MISTAKE YOU CAN MAKE WITH A MAN…

You start a conversation about the relationship and then you “let me have it”!

(you get upset and lose your cool with me)

All your desires, fears, frustrations and dreams that you’ve been holding inside away from me all pour out in one big emotional explosion…

This “Big Mistake” can take the form of arguing and yelling, but not exclusively.

Sometimes it’s just extreme intensity, perhaps tears.

It might include:

• Complaining about the current state of the relationship
• Talking about the things he does wrong with you
• Showing your frustrations about what you feel is missing
• Becoming upset that he doesn’t feel how you’d like him to feel
• Bringing up past issues, arguments or disappointments

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